How to Get Married at the San Diego Courthouse
So, you’re tying the knot in beautiful San Diego and you’re considering the charm and simplicity of a courthouse wedding. Well, let me tell you, you’re onto something truly special! Picture this: the gentle breeze of the San Diego Bay, the scent of saltwater in the air, and the promise of forever swirling around you. Nestled along the harbor with breathtaking views, this picturesque setting sets the stage for a day you'll cherish forever. The grounds boast picturesque fountains, gardens, and even a café for those pre-wedding bites. Picture-perfect, right? As an experienced photographer capturing intimate weddings and elopements, I’m here to guide you through the process and help you create memories that will last a lifetime.
Step 1: Planning Your Special Day
Let's kick off this adventure with a little paperwork. Romantic, I know. You can complete your Marriage License paperwork in person, but online is recommended for a more seamless experience. There, you can schedule your appointment up to 7 weeks in advance!
You also have the option to obtain your marriage license and exchange vows all in one trip, sparing you the hassle of multiple courthouse visits. Should you decide to separate the paperwork and ceremony, rest assured that your marriage license remains valid for 90 days. Some couples find this approach appealing, allowing them to handle the administrative tasks upfront and savor a truly stress-free ceremony.
Some things to note before heading to the courthouse:
You will be required to present valid government issued photo ID (Drivers License, Passport, Military ID)
Both parties must be present
Public license ceremonies must have at least one witness or they can provide one for you for an additional $58
The fee for a civil ceremony is $107
A Public Marriage License costs $129 and a Confidential Marriage License costs $144. What is the difference?
The San Diego Courthouse offers indoor and outdoor ceremonies. The canopy of the West Arbor, adorned with vibrant bougainvillea, is a favorite amongst couples and does not have a guest limit. However, availability at this scenic outdoor spot may be limited because of weather, construction, events, etc. Find a list of scheduled dates where availability may be impacted here.
Should the weather forecast raise any worries about rain dampening your special day, rest assured that we have contingency plans in place. In the event of inclement weather, we can seamlessly transition your ceremony indoors; therefore, opting for an outdoor ceremony initially is highly recommended. Booking indoors may result in forfeiting the chance to take advantage of clear skies should the weather improve.
Step 2: Hire Your Photographer
Now, let's talk about capturing those precious moments. Hiring your courthouse wedding photographer early on is key. Locking in your photographer early ensures you get the date and time you desire. Plus, your photographer can double as your witness – talk about a win-win! Good news - I may know someone ;)
Step 3: Embrace the Moment
On the big day, block out at least two hours of time. Make sure to arrive at least 20 minutes early to account for parking (complimentary 3 hour parking located underground between Harbor Drive and Pacific Highway), security, and check-in processes. Take some time to soak up the excitement and snap a few photos before your ceremony.
Then, it’s time to say “I do!” San Diego courthouse wedding ceremonies are brief, typically lasting less than 10 minutes. Not your style? You can absolutely add your own personal touch to your civil ceremony. Politely ask the officiant if you can exchange your own vows and if time permits, they will usually accommodate your request. If not, you can always take the time afterwards to share your vows!
Want a friend or relative to perform your marriage ceremony? Check out the Deputy Marriage Commissioner for a Day program!
Step 4: Capture the Magic
After your ceremony, it’s time for your first official portrait session as a married couple. I am there as your photographer to guide you through the beautiful locations on the property, ensuring every moment is beautifully captured. For optimal lighting, I suggest booking an early morning appointment or a late afternoon appointment. If there are no available time slots at these times, no need to worry! The area surrounding the courthouse provides shady landscapes so beautiful photos will be taken at all hours of the day.
Step 5: Cherish the Memories
After 10 days to a few weeks, you will be able to request your Marriage Certificate which you will need in order to change your name if you choose. In addition, you’ll have this momentous occasion captured in stunning photographs for you and future generations to cherish forever.
Ready to Get Started?
Planning your San Diego courthouse wedding should be a breeze. With a little preparation and a lot of love, your special day will be everything you’ve dreamed of and more.
For booking inquiries and more information, please feel free to reach out! I’m will make the process seamless and help design the wedding day you envisioned.
Courthouse wedding not your vibe? Not to worry! I am experienced in photographing intimate weddings and larger celebrations. No matter the size or style of your big day, I’ll make sure every moment is captured beautifully and authentically.
