Booking Your Proposal Photographer: Three Questions Your Partner Wants You to Ask

“Will you marry me?” is one of the most special and significant questions you’ll ask your significant other, with the potential to change the entire course of your relationship and your life. For such a special moment, you want to make sure it’s captured on camera – this is where your proposal shoot photographer comes in.

Booking a photographer without the help of your other half can be daunting, but so long as you ask these three questions, you’re guaranteed to be left with stunning photos your partner will love.

“Do you have a plan to be discreet?”

A proposal shoot is all about capturing beautiful, authentic moments, and for this, a discreet approach is paramount. Your proposal is a huge moment, and one that you won’t want your partner to see coming – so it’s crucial your photographer knows exactly how to get those sentimental shots without getting in the way of the surprise.

Talk to your photographer about the timeline of your day and the venue at which you’re planning to propose. Whether you’ll be inside a luxurious restaurant or taking an intimate stroll across the beach, there’s things your photographer will need to be aware of, such as where they’ll be able to set up their equipment without being seen, as well as how they’ll go about hiding their whereabouts to get your dream shots. Your photographer will be used to being discreet, but you can make their work just that little bit easier with clear communication.

“What’s your photography style?”

Have a think about the type of photos your partner would like – do they prefer documentary-style photography, or something more posed, like editorial photography? If the latter – which may be more tricky to achieve for a proposal shoot – you’ll want to think about how you can incorporate this into the special moment, perhaps allowing some time for posed photos after you’ve popped the question.

Make sure you’re clear on your photographer’s photography style before you make any agreements. If you’re unsure about what your partner might like, try sharing a bit about them with your photographer – they’ll likely be able to advise you, and should have lots of inspiration, tips and tricks to help you feel more at ease with the decision you’re making to book a proposal shoot.

“Have you captured a proposal like ours before?”

Choosing a photographer with experience capturing proposals is essential for your peace of mind on the day. Of course, every proposal is totally unique to the couple, but knowing that your professional has a track record of happy customers will give you confidence that your photos will come out just the way you imagined.

Ask if your photographer has a portfolio you can view, or take a look at their website or social media channels to browse past shoots. If you see something you like, let them know – perhaps there’s a particular location you’d love to choose for your own big moment, or a shot you’d like to try to recreate. Just remember, your photos will always be original, and the beauty of a proposal shoot is that the shots are less planned – it’s the organic nature and authenticity of the photos that make them so special and stunning.

A shoot tailored to you

While there are some questions worth asking, booking a photographer for your proposal is well worth the extra planning. There’s nothing quite like having beautiful, sentimental pictures of the moment you declare your love for you both to look back on for years to come. Contact me here and we’ll create the perfect proposal for you and your partner!

Remember to keep any other preferences in mind, such as if your partner favours sustainability, or wishes to avoid certain locations. Together with your photographer, you can plan for perfect photos that are tailored to your individual requirements.


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